Are You Living a Life That Looks Perfect on the Outside While Secretly Dying on the Inside?

For far too long, women have unknowingly signed an invisible contract – that disconnection from self is the price of being chosen and loved.

We have sacrificed our deepest desires, our energy, and our sanity on the altars of marriage and family.

But ohhhhh, what a terrible price that is.

Maybe you are surviving the day, going through the motions, and carrying the heavy emotional labor of a home where you feel entirely invisible. Your partner or family has your body, but they do not have your soul. And you find yourself trapped in massive emotional disconnection, standing at a terrifying crossroads, and constantly asking yourself:

Should I get a divorce, or do I stay?

I am here to tell you:

It doesn’t have to be this way.

There is a way forward and the journey starts here.

The Agonizing Double Bind of the "Good Guy" Marriage

Maybe you are staring at your husband, who is, by all accounts, a perfectly “good guy”—and beating yourself up because you are miserable anyway. You are riding a relentless merry-go-round of guilt and shame, telling yourself you should just be grateful for a marriage that is so good on paper.

Or maybe you are trapped in a disorienting fog, walking on eggshells around covert narcissistic behaviors, wondering if you are the one who is crazy.

Either way, you are facing a painful double bind:

If you stay, you risk entirely losing connection to your Self and the wild woman within.
If you go, you risk losing the conditional love and approval of everyone around you.

You are terrified that the grass won’t be greener, that you’ll ruin your children’s lives, or that you’ll look back with permanent regret. So you stay frozen in indecision. Meanwhile, the present slips away.

Divorce is Not a Failure. It is a Portal to Your Power.

Hey love, I'm Britta Jo.

I know what it’s like to live locked in someone else’s reality because I spent the first 30 years of my life doing it. I unraveled my own life, shed layers of patriarchal programming, and divorced a “good guy” to rebuild my life from radical intuition.

I am not here to save you. I am a fierce big sister and a grounded guide who is here to help you remember who you really are and retrieve your soul-connection.

Whether you choose to ultimately stay or go, you can love your reasons, trust your intuition, and live a life that is unapologetically your own.

You do not have to settle for a psychically barren existence any longer. There is an indomitable force inside of you waiting to be released.

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Testimonials

If you're struggling with the decision to stay or go, you have to do this program. Britta will help you transform the decision-making process into something that serves you instead of something that feels like a lose-lose. I can't believe the change I see in myself in just 6 weeks. I'm excited to keep going and see where it leads me, and so thankful that I don't have to make this decision alone. You can't afford to not do this. It will change your life and how you make not just this decision, but every decision that comes afterwards.

Meagan N.

Sign up with Britta! I was in such a dark place in my marriage. I was wondering if it was worth staying or if I should divorce and stressing about everything either of those choices might entail. Having read scores of books, gone to couples and individual counseling, and listening to many podcasts about marriage and relationships I knew I needed something. Britta gave me the tools to build a bridge between where I was and where I wanted to be. She has taught me how to act from a place of empowerment rather than control or guilt. She has taught me how to truly love others since it is 100% dependent on me, which I didn't actually believe before. I want to add that Britta is completely non judgemental which feels so good when you're sharing everything. By far I have experienced the best results working with her than with any other counseling, book, podcast, or practice that I have previously tried. It is worth the investment for yourself, and your relationships. You won't regret the clarity and power that come thanks to Britta's incredible coaching and teaching. You will be able to choose to stay or go from a place of love. She gave me the tools and coached me in such a way that I have chosen to stay. I love my husband, my children, and am so glad that I learned the skills necessary to enrich my life. Seriously, sign up and you will not regret it and you will be able to choose to stay or go from a place of love, freedom, and empowerment!

Sarah M.

Britta is amazing at what she does. She knew exactly what topics I needed to work through and her approach was exactly how I needed it. She helped me to see how to become a happier me and cope with all of my emotions in a healthy way. I’ve learned how to truly process my emotions rather than constantly avoiding them.
I've grown a greater love for myself, my flaws, and my strengths. And I’ve realized what I deserve and that I can focus on my thoughts to achieve the things I want to strive for - for myself as well as for my boys.

Chelsea V.

Coaching with Britta has been the kindest form of self care I could give myself! She is a great listener, and is able to sift through my thoughts and help me to find truth and make decisions in a more clear way. She has taught me how to feel my feelings and to understand emotions better. My relationship with my husband and my kids has benefited immensely and I am better at helping my children with their emotions instead of getting overwhelmed! I am so grateful for the skills she has given me, and wish that everyone had Britta to talk to each week!

Traci F.

I found working with Britta to be very worthwhile and useful. The sessions were a great sounding board and helped me dig down into some of the root issues that are causing me so much pain. She has a real gift to provide a safe space to explore my beliefs about marriage, separation, and divorce while still honing in on what is keeping me stuck in indecision.

Ann F.

Britta is an amazing coach. She accurately helped me realize that the reason I was constantly in "fight or flight mode" in my relationship was because of my childhood beliefs that I had grown up with and thoughts about my parents' marriage that were now affecting my own. Believe me this was a revolution that I hadn't realized despite multiple therapy sessions in the past. Britta offers a non-judgmental safe space to talk honestly about your marriage, and allows you to make your own decision whether to stay or go from a place of confidence.

Rachele S.